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If you haven’t dated since your divorce, you can feel a little overwhelmed at the thought of flirting with some man or trying to meet other single adults. The great thing is that most people do feel this way at one point or another, so you’re not alone. Luckily, there are some really great flirting tips for divorced women and this article is dedicated to just that! Without further ado:

Get Confident -

One of the most important things about dating after a divorce is confidence. It’s also one of the sexiest things women can possess. Men absolutely love it when a woman is comfortable in her own skin and is confident when she approaches him - or even when she doesn’t. If you’re not feeling particularly confident, think about all the things you find attractive about your looks and your personality.

Perhaps you have beautiful eyes or pride yourself on your toned body. You might have an amazing sense of humor or something else. Think about these things and write them down. Whenever you’re feeling a little low on confidence, read them and think about each wonderful thing about yourself. This will really help as a confidence booster.

Don’t Be Afraid to Approach Someone -

If you see an attractive, single man, don’t be afraid to approach him. Many times, men are more worried about how to approach you and they will spend all night thinking about it rather than just walking over. So, even if he thinks you’re hot and doesn’t walk over - it doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to. Save him the trouble and go say hi. Smile at him and ask if he is alone and would he mind if you join him. Here comes the fear of rejection, right? You’ve been through DIVORCE. If a man tells you no - what can it possibly do to hurt you? His loss!

Laugh at His Jokes -

Men seem to think that there’s nothing greater than when a woman laughs at his jokes. Hopefully, he’s actually a funny guy and you don’t have to flash that pretend laugh at him, but give him the benefit of the doubt. He could be really nervous so laughing at his jokes will make him feel more at ease. Keep the conversation light and humorous at first - let him see your fun side. It’s as simple as being yourself and letting your own natural charm and personality shine through.

Appeal to His ‘Manly’ Side -

Men can’t admit to it, and some women feel offended by it - but it’s a male’s natural instinct to want to care for a woman. So, if he offers to purchase you something to eat or drink, take him up on it and thank him. It will make him feel great and hey - you just got a free drink, right? If the two of you are walking somewhere, put your hand on his arm and hold it as if he were your escort. This boosts up his ego, making him feel as if he is the only man that is on your mind. Men love this sort of junk! Appealing to his manly side is a great way to let him know that you’re interested.

By using these flirting tips for divorced women, you will find someone you really like in no time flat. Just remember to be yourself and to have fun. Retaining your sense of humor is one of the best things you can do at a time like this!

Danielle L. Taylor is the author and editor for Xstilla.com one of the most active divorce support communities in the Web. To learn more about divorce, child support, dating or to discuss your problem with understanding members of the community visit Xstilla.com!