Why Good Girls Like Bad Boys
They say nice guys always finish last and one area where this is very evident is with dating, the good girls, and the bad boys. It seems that every type of girl, even the good girl is attracted to the bad boy. This leaves a lot of guys scratching their heads wondering exactly what is going on with the bad boys and why every woman seems to be inextricably attracted to the bad boy.
Why do the good girls like the bad boys? The most simple answer is that bad boys are more interesting than good girls. Women like a man who seems like he does want he wants to do when he wants to do it and he simply seems more interesting than the man who does very little of what he wants to do and everything he needs to do, what is interesting about that? Women like a man who falls outside of the lines, even if just a little bit.
Women also like bad guys because just about every woman wants a challenge. If she knows that she can get you, she doesn’t want you. A woman likes to know that there is going to be the proverbial thrill of the chase and the bad boy gives a woman exactly this! The nice guy lets her know that he wants her and she feels bored right then and there.
Bad boys are sexy. Most women cannot put their fingers on why bad boys are so sexy, but they are. A woman wants a man who is, above all else, very sexy and the bad boy has sexy down perfectly. If you can choose between a man who is sexy and one who isn’t you are obviously going to choose the sexy bad boy and this is why bad boys often have a lot more women.
Above all else, a woman wants a man who is confident. A woman dislikes nothing more than a man that they have to assure time and time again. The bad boy is usually someone, who above all else, is confident in himself. Women like this because it means that they can be with a man who is confident and sure of himself at all times, so there is no need to prop him up and make him feel better. When a woman dates someone who is confident they feel sexier and more confident, and this is important.
The bad boy doesn’t always keep the girl and he won’t get every girl, but these are the reasons that a good portion of the women out there will go for the bad boy at some point in their life. This doesn’t mean that the bad boy is definitely the best one for the good girl, but it definitely means that she’ll take notice!
Rodrigo Rehn is a Relationships Expert, Linux Systems Administrator, Web Programmer, PHP Developer and CEO of FaceRomance online dating for singles.